I think I watch too much TV. I used to be able to rationalize watching TV into not being that bad for me. I mean, reading is always considered a beneficial practice, and watching TV is just like fast reading, right? It’s not like I’m watching reality TV or Access Hollywood. I’m watching shows that, much like books, have writers. Even better than books, TV shows have multiple writers. And you know what they say: more is always better!
I think the problem arises when you realize that TV shows are made exclusively to make money. And while the goal of books is also to make money, the sheer volume of literature in the world means that the focus on money is less pressing. Plus, there aren’t channels and networks for books that are vying for the attention of the masses like it was a click on a Buzzfeed list.
So, do I feel like I shouldn’t be watching as much TV as I do? Probably. Mostly because it very explicitly gets in the way of actually getting anything done. Between getting home from work and actually sitting down to write this, I watched two hours of TV. Shows and episodes that I’ve watched a thousand times. Well not a thousand but at least three or four. Which, for an episode of Friends or Seinfeld, is plenty. They don’t really have the unlimited watch-ablity of a Family Guy, a 30 Rock or even a Parks and Rec.
I can’t help but think about what one of my communication studies professors talked about when I was in college. How TV is not a medium for engagement like video games or social media. You don’t sit in front of the TV with the intent of stimulating yourself. You sit in front of the TV to relax. Veg out. Empty your brain and let the laugh tracks and bright colors wash over you like a patient going under for surgery.
And that makes sense. I mean I can’t tell you how many times I have picked up my phone in the middle of an episode I was very much enjoying to peruse Facebook statuses and Instagram pictures. Why? Because I’m not immediately engaged. In all likelihood, I’ve either seen the episode or, worst comes to worst, I can rewind. After all, my relaxation time isn’t going to get in the way of my Facebookery!
What about reading? I’d like to think that reading to a certain degree has a positive effect on the brain which is why I have started to make an effort to do it more often. I mean, I haven’t done it persistently in years, but that doesn’t mean I’m not capable. It’s not that I DON’T read. I just don’t read now. If I’m being honest, I was unable to finish my now-favorite book because they kept releasing new series on Netflix… but I can totally quit whenever I want!
But if not for TV, what would I be? Would I be smarter? Or dumber? I feel like a lot of my social awareness comes from TV. Not because they get it right or even close to realistic. But the sheer volume of episodes, seasons and series I have consumed alone is staggering. And much like how constant texting has a positive effect on writing skills, being exposed to various social situations (even those as stupid as having two dates to the same dance) can eventually yield positive results in the form of social awareness.
That might explain why I’m good at giving advice and terrible at taking it. Maybe because talking to friends and girlfriends about important issues seems so simple in TV shows and so terrifyingly awkward in real life. Especially when your real life is filled with people that would make terrible TV characters. It’s like “you never talk about anything! Unless you are unimaginably drunk!” Or “You’re so talkative about stuff that no one cares about! You’re almost thirty! Let’s stop talking about your sexcapades!”
I can’t stay on topic to save my life today. And maybe that’s from the TV too (see I’m wrapping it all together). I mean, being raised on something that allows you to literally flip your attention from topic to topic is not only terribly indicative of my hobbies and interests, but also pretty specifically implies a lot in terms of ADHD.
While I can’t help but wonder what my life would be like without TV, I always come to the same conclusion: TV is a necessary vice that keeps me happy. Granted, there is no harm in managing my self control and making time for a few other things in my life, like reading, writing and honestly just being productive in general. However, there is no point in vilifying something that has played such a huge role in my life. So, if TV Tune Out wants to try to rip the remote control out of my hands, they better bring a crowbar.